Experiencing Wedding Stress – Not a Problem

Welcome to our video series of the top 20 questions brides ask when planning their wedding.  One of the big problems I see when I work with brides is how tired and stressed they are by their wedding day—-never mind their wedding night.

Follow the script below:

How do brides arrive at their wedding day so stressed and tired?  No one PLANS to have that happen, yet I see it over and over again.

The usual culprit is uncertainty.  You make a decision you really aren’t sure of, but you make it and it is done.  Then you build on that decision by making another decision, and now you really are unsure.  But, you ignore that feeling, and keep going.  Things need to get done, and you are running out of time.  Then a family member questions your decisions, and you feel even more unsure, but, time is running out.  So you keep going, and you try to ignore that feeling in the pit of your stomach.

This is what I like to call the “stress cycle”.  Just think how much easier it would be if you could just pick up the phone and ask someone in the wedding industry what they think!  Someone who knows wedding stuff, and has experience with all the wedding options and choices, and is available to you every day.

Well, that is what you get when you become a member of  The Bridal Coach.ca.  Every day, we have a live coaching hour where you can phone, email or text in your questions, and discuss your decisions.  Best of all, you get a competent, professional opinion so you can feel good about your choices, and you can get that pesky problem solved once a for all.

Although we have many fun, video modules giving you information, and great SmartBride Action Plans to follow, the real benefit of the membership site is the fact that you have a coach—a real, live, knowledgeable, certified wedding planning consultant to talk to—every day if you want to.  Unsure about something?  Don’t wonder.  Just call in.  Wondering if you should spend a certain amount of money on a specific wedding package or if there is something better out there?  Just send a quick email and ask.  But all our coaching is not just on the coaching hour.

When you join us, you become a SmartBride member, and a wedding planning consultant will contact you and set up a telephone appointment.  We assess where you are in the wedding planning process, and we give you a tailored guideline to follow to get you to your wedding day.  No need to watch all our videos (although you can if you want to), or to read all our SmartBride Action Plans—your coach will direct you to just those things that you need, based on your personal wedding plan, to get to your wedding day relaxed and confident that you have it together.  And, we don’t just leave you hanging out on the website.  We follow up with you to make sure you are on-track and getting things done, and of course, we are there to help you with any problems that might come up.

Planning your wedding need not be a stressful experience.  Get the answers you need to make this a fun experience for you.  It is your wedding after all, and why shouldn’t it be a joyful experience instead of a stressful one?

Good luck, and congratulations on your upcoming wedding.