My Beach Favors Story – Losing A Few Inches Has Never Been Easier

I was going to write about this product, and give you all the technical details of it.  But I’ve changed my mind.  Instead, I want to tell you our story here at My Beach Favors.

Katharine, our Customer Service Supervisor at My Beach Favors, tried this product first.  She lost inches—overnight.  You are supposed to wear the wrap for 45 minutes, and lose inches.  But Katharine, well, she likes to do things her way.  So she wore it overnight. She had applied it to her belly area.  FOUR INCHES!  That’s what she lost overnight.  Her pants were baggy!  She was showing us at the next day, at the office.  We were all impressed.  We started asking questions.

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I’ve been overweight my whole life.  I’ve tried it all, seen it all.  OK.  I admit.  I was jaded.  But others in the office started to use the product.  They were losing inches. Katharine started having Wrap Parties—inviting a few people over in the evening to try it out (they pay for the wraps they use).  I decided to come to the party and try it myself.  In 45 minutes I had lost 2 inches on my belly.  AMAZING.  Most ladies at the Wrap Party signed up as a Loyal Customer, but I signed up as a Distributor.  I know a good thing when I see it!

A Loyal Customer means you get the wraps at about 1/2 price from retail, and you commit to receiving 3 auto ship orders.  You are a member for life, and don’t ever have to do anything with the company again if you don’t want to.  Dave, a fellow in our office, signed up as a Loyal Customer.  He wanted to try these wraps on other parts of his body, and thought with 3 orders (4 per box) it would give him enough wraps to do his entire body—neck/chin, upper arms, belly, love handles, inner and outer thighs.  You have to wait 72 hours between applying the wraps to give your body a rest from detoxifying and working while it assimilates all the natural herbs in the wrap.  That will take him through the 3 months of autoship.

I COULDN’T BELIEVE IT!!  Every single person at this Wrap Party became either a Loyal Customer or a Distributor.  I could see Katharine was making money on this, and I wanted in.  After all, I own this website, and I am a wedding planner, and I know lots of brides who want the little bulging skin above their strapless dress GONE before the wedding day.

I became a Distributor, which means I can make money from people who buy the product from me or through me.  I have a business, and this made sense to me.  I am looking at Katharine (who is also a Distributor), and she cannot keep enough stock of her product to meet the business coming her way.  Friends are telling friends, and she doing one Wrap Party after another.

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I have to say I really like the products they have.  Along with the wraps, which are really called the Ultimate Body Applicator, they have a variety of other products.  They have the Body Slimming products which includes the Ultimate Body Applicator and the Defining Gel (use together for best results), Skin Care products, Supplements, and for those who want to lose weight there is Fit Works.

I LOVE the Defining Gel—you use it with the Ultimate Body Applicator.  Being a little older, it is making my skin feel young again!  Firmer.  Smoother.  Oh, this is definitely an amazing thing. The saggy bits are going away.  I met someone new the other day and they thought I was much younger than I am.  I am giving the credit to these products!

Not everyone cares about saving a few dollars, and becoming a Loyal Customer or a Distributor.  For those people, retail is the way to go.  You can get more information on these products here, or you can visit our It Works! retail store here.

All the staff at My Beach Favors is looking pretty good these days (we are ALL using the products), and a few of us are making some nice money on the side.  I just wanted to share with you our story here at My Beach Favors, and invite you to check it out.  Enjoy your wedding!

Wedding Dresses – Ideas for 2010

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Engaged, get set, go! Hit the wedding planning road off and running with a few simple tips to finding the best of 2010 wedding dresses.

This year, designers have out done themselves. They have given us back drama, elegance, and style with their stunning takes on old favourites. Here is a quick run down on what’s hot for 2010 and what you should be looking for when shopping for your hot and modern wedding dress.

Ruffles

The runways are all a buzz this year with ruffles. Although ruffles have been a staple in fashion since the 1800′s, they have been on the back burning for quite some time now. But, designers have brought them back for 2010.

Choose a wedding dress with any kind of ruffling and you’ll be the hottest, most cutting edge bride around.

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If you are tall and athletic, you can take this look to the max with horizontal or vertical ruffles throughout your attire.

You petite or full bodied gals, on the other hand, should keep your ruffles on the vertical and don’t overdo them. If in doubt, keep it simple and choose to have some ruffling on the neckline or sleeves only…remember even ruffling just along the hemline of the skirt can make you look shorter and wider.

Beading

Keep your look fresh this year too by adding a little bling to your dress. That’s right. Crystal beading is back. Remember, if you are petite, less is more…

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A sharp contrast from the plain, simple skirts of seasons past, this year we see heavier fabrics unleashed with lots of folding, gathering and pleating. This is a great look for creating drama in your attire.

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Ball Gowns

Last but not least, the full ball gown is back full heartedly this year. Big, full skirts herald in the elegance, sophistication, and opulence that was once synonymous with wedding gowns. Rich, full fabrics lend their weight in creating the big skirt. And what do you know? This style is great for all body types!

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Once again designers have come up with styles for just about everyone. But, if none of this does it for you, fret not. There will be lots of those old favourites still around.

Jaime Pressly Marries in Lovely Vintage Wedding

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Meet the new Mr. and Mrs. Singh! My Name is Earl star Jaime Pressly wed entertainment lawyer Dezi James in a beautiful outdoor wedding on Saturday evening.

Guest gathered at Dick Clark’s 12-acre Malibu estate for the day’s events, which is on a bluff with a breathtaking ocean view (Adam Sandler) also got married there!). The bride wore two lovely dresses by British designer Jenny Packham – a long sexy ivory silk gown embellished with more than 800,000 Swarvoski crystals, sequins, and glass beads, and a plunging V-neck for the ceremony, and an open-backed, 40’s inspired cocktail dress for the reception. (We love the wardrobe change Jaime!) She paired her two fabulous looks with a crystal headpiece from Acacia and birdcage veil. All ten of her bridesmaids walked down the aisle in silver one-shouldered dresses, also by Packham. Pressly carried a bouquet of pink and white roses (so sweet!), which were also scattered along the aisle courtesy of Floral Art. The bride’s 2-year old son Dezi served as the ring bearer.

The pair hosted an outdoor reception in an open-air tent, where guests sat at circular tables with all white linens, decorated with pink and white floral centerpieces and pillar candles. To complete the vintage-era style, crystal chandeliers were hung from the ceilings. A white four-tier round wedding cake was served for dessert. Sounds like it was a beautiful night! Congrats you two!

Are you having a vintage inspired wedding? Tell us all about it below!

photo: Courtesy of Joe Bussick

RSS news source: celebrityweddingbuzz.com

The New Wedding Cupcakes? Donuts!

That’s right. You saw it here first. Donuts are the new wedding cake alternative. Set them up on trays and scatter them around a pretty cake stand. This couple upped the ante by ordering extra-special ones from Dee’s Mini Organic Doughnuts (OrganicDonuts.com) — aka, fresh, all-organic deliciousness.

Photo: Divine Order Photography (DivineOrderPhotography.com/blog)

> Get more creative reception catering ideas!

PS - If you love this idea and happen to live in South Florida, you’re in luck! You can actually rent a mini donut-making machine from a company called Donut Divas (DonutDivas.com) for your wedding — yum!

RSS news source: community.theknot.com

Link Love: Sundae Bar, Ring Holders, Escort Cards

Our favorite DIY tutorials from the last week:
1:Fabric swatch escort card display, stylemepretty.com
2:Dandelion ring holders, brideslittlewhitebook.blogspot.com
3:Apple escort card, ritzybee.typepad.com
4:Make your own sundae bar, eatdrinkchic.com

Want to see your own projects featured here? Send links to editors@mydiyweddingday.com

Seating cards, Jenny Smith/Alders Photography; Dandelion ring holders, Katie Stoops/Open Air Photography; escort card, Meg Smith; Sundae bar, Eat Drink Chic

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Source: Mydiyweddingday.com

For a Select Few V.I.P.s

Ever since Mr. Mary Jane and I decided to get married at the courthouse, I’ve waffled repeatedly on whether to create some type of invitation for our very small amount of guests.

There were a few reasons I didn’t want to create these invitations:

  1. Lack of time. I have tons of other things going on.
  2. Possible tag-alongs. If FMIL were to put it on her fridge (for example), a few extra relatives might pencil us in to their calendars. Our event is very small and intimate, so we’d rather not have this.
  3. There are only 7 guests! We can just tell them when and where!

Last week, I changed my mind after having been asked by each of the guests when, where, and what time the wedding was being held. A few of the guests have asked me multiple times. I decided perhaps they needed a specifics-card of some sort.

I also thought the moms might want to have something as a keepsake, perhaps to scrapbook. And I won’t lie: I wanted something to scrapbook, too. All of our paper products have our picnic information on them, and I really wanted to have something that recognizes our actual wedding date!

Our wedding is fast-approaching, but that’s not a bad thing!

In fact, it allows me to easily overcome problem number 2, above. All of the guests already know they’re coming to our wedding, so we don’t need them to reserve the date at this point (they’ve already done so). I can give the cards out within days of the wedding, and just ask the recipients to keep them hush-hush.

On Friday afternoon I sat down at my computer and started playing in Photoshop. I decided I’d do something nice and simple so that I could print them and be done with it. (Like I said, I have plenty to do without this added DIY project.)

Here’s what I came up with.

As you can see, I decided to veer away from the style of our picnic paper products [Save the Dates; Invitation suites]. This is because the ceremony is an entirely separate thing. The picnic celebrates our marriage; the ceremony is our marriage. The dates and guest lists are different, so I took the opportunity to change it up a little. I haven’t begun designing our announcements yet, but I have a feeling that their design will somehow tie in to these ceremony cards.

After I’d finished the mock-up, I was a little worried that they were perhaps a little “out there” with all of the splatters. Mr. Mary Jane loved it though, and told me not to change a thing! Sweet.

The fonts I chose are Inked God and SouciSans, both from dafont.com. I played around with Inked God’s capital and lowercase letters to get the desired embellishments (some of the caps have cool swishes)! I also used two different brushes to create the heart splatter: Damned Hearts and Vector Style Hearts (both downloaded from Brusheezy.com).

I went to Michaels and brought two sheets of double-printed cardstock and two rolls of ribbon.

Then on Saturday morning (after I finished the sash), I got down to business.

My paper was 12″x12″, but I wanted to print the cards on my home printer so I chopped them down to 8.5″x11″.

I think that the best decision I made was to change the print’s color from black (shown in the original design above) to brown (shown on the print-outs below). The brown looks completely awesome with the textured tan paper (if I do say so myself). Mr. Mary Jane said it almost looks like the ink was always part of the paper. I think it looks stamped, stained, or painted on (instead than the reality: fed through a computer peripheral). I printed two cards on each sheet, cut them out and rounded two opposite corners of each one.

Then it was time for ribbon and labels! I made some little labels from the cardstock scraps. I hand-wrote the invitees’ names on the colored-side of each label, rounded two opposing corners, and punched a heart-shaped hole in one corner of each.

I then tied a big, happy bow around each card using 2.5″-wide wired brown ribbon. Finally, I used skinny brown ribbon I’d bought to tie a label to each bow.

The tags kind of hang upside-down due to where I punched the heart-hole. In retrospect, I should have either written them differently or punched a different corner. I decided that it wasn’t worth the hassle to change them, though.

Here they are, all done! I’m not going to put these in envelopes: I’ll hand-deliver them. I feel that the fat ribbon is enough to give it a package-like quality.

I made a total of 4 cards: three for invitees and one to keep myself.

It breaks down to…

  • 2 pieces of 12″x12″ cardstock @ $.079 each, on sale for $30% off: $1.10
  • Spool of the fattest brown ribbon I could find: $5.99
  • Spool of the skinniest brown ribbon I could find: $0.50

I already owned…

  • The paper cutter
  • The corner-rounder
  • The heart punch
  • The scissors
  • The Crayola marker
  • The printer and its ink

Total Cost: $7.59
Cost per Invite: $1.90 (I made 4.)

The wired ribbon is what made it so spendy. If I were making a large volume of these, I’d have done a couple of things differently:

  1. Bought cheaper ribbon (or bought this ribbon on sale/with a coupon).
  2. Used a printer capable of printing 12×12 paper (allowing me to fit four of the 4×6 cards on one sheet instead of just two).

Since I only needed a few, I’m quite satisfied with the money spent as well as the overall result. I hope our guests like them as much as we do!

Throughout the planning process, have you had any decision-180s that caused you to spend more time and energy working on some aspect of your wedding? Was it worth it?

Source: WeddingBee.com

Oh, Lighting

So lately I’ve been seeing some very beautiful things as I try to gather inspiration for the wedding. In the past I would see pretty things and think, ‘oh that’s nice,’ and now I think, ‘oh that’s nice, how can I incorporate that into our wedding?’ My latest obsession is these lanterns. They are gorgeous and totally impractical. I have no where to put these, and they don’t match any of the colors we’re going with, really. The venue provides tiki torches already, but for some reason I’m lusting after these from Home Infatuation:

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Can you think of any ways I might be able to incorporate these into the wedding? Or can you all use them in your wedding so I can live vicariously through you all ?

Source: http://www.weddingbee.com/2009/09/04/oh-lighting/

Reception Decorations – Decorate with Homemade Fabric Flags

A combination of super budget-friendly, unique, and gorgeous — instead of paper lanterns, hang fabric patterened flags from the ceiling of your tent or reception site.

Photo: One Love Photography (OneLovePhoto.typepad.com)

> See more DIY wedding photos — or just browse through all our wedding reception photos

What to Expect When Shopping for Your Wedding Dress

By Georgina Clatworthy

Your wedding dress will be the most important and probably the most expensive piece of clothing you will ever purchase.  It is for this reason that you should not enter into a decision lightly and neither should you be rushed into making one!

Whilst your final choice of dress is important, your choice of retailer is equally as in important, if not more so.  A good bridal retailer will offer good sound advice on the shape, style, color and fabric of your wedding dress as well as being able to give you good advice on accessories to coordinate.

When you begin shopping for your wedding dress start by asking around friends and family for recommendations on good retailers in your area.  If someone has had a good experience they will be only too glad to tell you, likewise, if they have had a bad experience then they will probably guide you away from that particular bridal store!

Many bridal stores will operate on an appointment only basis, however larger stores will usually be open 6 days a week and many smaller independent shops will have at least one day and maybe an evening where you can go in and browse the stock without being under any obligation to try one on.

Try to visit as many stores as you can and if possible try to speak with the shop owner or assistants to gauge how knowledgeable they are and if you feel comfortable with them.  Remember you will probably be spending a large amount time parading around in your underwear whilst various dresses and accessories are thrown at you! So you need to feel comfortable with them seeing you like that!

Once you have found a store that suits you and which you feel can provide you with good service then arrange an appointment to try dresses on.  On the day of the appointment there are several things that you should consider before you turn up at the shop:

  • Take a maximum of two people with you. Bridal stores tend to be small and any more than two will begin to feel rather crowded.
  • Take with you people whom you trust to give you sound advice and who will reign you in should you get carried away and try to blow the entire wedding budget on a dream gown!
  • Bridal stores are no place for children so arrange a babysitter if needed.
  • Wear a pair of shoes with a similar heel height to that which you will want on your wedding day. You don’t need to buy wedding shoes, but wear a pair of shoes which are comfortable.
  • Wear white or light colored lingerie and try to wear a strapless bra which fits well. Many wedding dresses are strapless these days and a strapless can be worn with any style of dress without spoiling the look.
  • Have some idea of the style and shape of dress you would like to help the bridal store guide you to the right dresses. They may tell you that your vision will not be suitable for you, but ask to try something on anyway so you can decide if they are right. Take some pictures, magazine clippings etc as well.
  • Be prepared for a long day as it can take time to find the perfect wedding dress!

Model Eva Marcille Finally Reveals Some Wedding Details: Dog Tuxedos a Must!

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Model and actress Eva Marcille has finally started talking about her upcoming wedding plans with fiancé Lance Gross. Essence.com sat down with the The Young and the Restless star to talk details. And, it looks like we’ll have to wait until next summer to watch these two beautiful people say “I do” — the bride-to-be says a July 17th, 2010 wedding date has been selected, though not much else.

“I’m still looking for my planner, which is an experience in itself. I want someone who gets my style and can make it happen,” says Marcille.

The couple plan to wed in a catholic ceremony, then host an outdoor reception with a fall theme, and the bride’s pooches will be VIPs on the big day.

“I love my dogs and want them to come to the reception dressed in tuxes. I’m also changing to a second dress as we get ready to party.”

Want to make your canine companion the best dressed best dog ever? We found two sharp doggie tuxedos you’ll love that won’t break the bank: The Dog Tuxedo ($18.95-$26.95) and the Best Man Dog Shirt ($18-$24) from the-petboutique.com are A-list formalwear picks for your big or small dog.

Check out the happy couple’s sexy engagement shoot here.

photo: Arnold Turner/WireImage/Getty Images

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source: http://www.celebrityweddingbuzz.com/celebrity_weddings/2009/09/model-eva-marcille-finally-reveals-some-wedding-details-dog-tuxedos-a-must.html

John Krasinski and Emily Blunt Engaged (Fans Happy and Sad!)

John_krasinski_office_headshotIf you were still getting used to watching The Office cutie Jim Halpert prepare to say “I do”, you’re really going to be hurting now. The New York Daily News reports that the show’s star John Krasinski is engaged in real life to British actress Emily Blunt, after dating for just 10 months.

The couple has been very low-key since they began dating in November 2008, so as you can expect the man who was voted one of People’s Sexiest Men Alive in 2009 had some pretty stunned fans. According to a recent People.com story, his fans were expressing both happiness and disappointment on Twitter when news of the engagement broke. Well, here at CWB we’re happy to see these two attempt to make it work in Hollywood, but sad that we won’t be hearing much about their wedding plans before the big day. Both parties have been very adamant about not wanting to speak about their romantic lives to the press. So, we’ll just have to guess what’s in store for their wedding day, won’t we? We look into our crystal balls and we see a romantic outdoor ceremony and a very glam indoor reception for the pair, with Blunt being a fall or winter bride, and if she learned anything from her time spent as a resident fashionista on the set of The Devil Wears Prada, she’ll probably be donning a gown from one of the top celebrity designers in the business. VeraWang, or Monique Lhuillier maybe? What type of wedding do you think they’ll have? Post your guesses below!

photo: courtesy of NBC.com/The_Office

source: http://www.celebrityweddingbuzz.com/celebrity_weddings/2009/08/john-krasinski-and-emily-blunt-engaged-fans-happy-and-sad.html

Even More Cupcake News!

A real quick one:

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At $1.00 each, these aren’t too shabby and might save us a lot of time and calluses. Images courtesy of Paper Orchid Stationery.

How did you decide whether to buy things instead of making them a DIY project?

Source: http://www.weddingbee.com/2009/09/03/even-more-cupcake-news/

Wedding Flowers Idea – Reuse Ceremony Decor at the Reception

This is so smart: The flower arrangements that lined the aisle at Nicole and James’ Washington-state wedding later topped the reception tables (with some branches added in for height). Even the bridesmaid bouquets did double duty as extra table decoration.

>See more wedding budgeting ideas.

Photos: Yoshi Ohara (http://www.yoshiohara.com)

Children and Your Wedding

Aside from my article on the worst wedding songs, the most strongly opinionated emails I receive are about having children at a wedding. Those with children can’t understand why their precious darlings should be excluded from a ritual that’s about family and community, while those without have images of rug-rats running free, spoiling a romantic and adult occasion. Reader Carol Anne goes even further than that. [Read more...]

Wedding Announcements – Sending Announcements for your Forthcoming Wedding

By Georgina Clatworthy

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Congratulations! You’re engaged! So now you have the task of making your wedding announcements to the world.  But first there are some important people in your lives who should be told before anyone else.

The first people to be told the happy news are the bride’s parents, followed by the groom’s parents.  It used to be traditional for the groom to ask the bride’s father for his permission to marry his daughter, but unless you are the really old fashioned type, this is not observed so much these days!

After both sets of parents have told of the engagement you can then make announcements to everyone else.  For close friends and other relatives this can be by word of mouth, over the phone or by letter.  Email and text message are often frowned upon in wedding etiquette terms but for close friends this can be a fun way to announce your engagement!  If you write your wedding announcements then make sure they are all posted at the same time so that (hopefully) everyone receives theirs at the same time and no-one feels excluded.

One thing you should not do is to announce your wedding during someone else’s wedding.  It is natural that you should want to tell the whole world but don’t steal the limelight from someone else’s special day.

Traditionally wedding announcements were made in the local press and perhaps the national press if you were of a high social standing.  Today, though this is observed less and formal wedding announcements have instead become printed cards which can be posted to all whom the couple wishes to receive the news.  Small announcements in local press are still popular but perhaps less well observed as in the past.

You don’t have to make announcements in the press although some parents may like to do so partly because its traditional and partly because it is a good way of informing old friends and colleagues with whom they or you may have lost touch.  Traditionally the bride’s parents would pay for announcements in the national press and the groom’s parents would pay for announcements in the local press.

Should you wish to make an announcement in the press then it is proper for the bride’s mother or the bride herself to write to the paper’s editor with an announcement along these lines:

Mr. R Jones and Miss C Smith

The Engagement is announced between

Roger

Only son of

Mr and Mrs John Jones of Kingston

And

Caroline

Eldest daughter of

Mr and Mrs Richard Smith of Princeville

Many wedding stationers carry a line of engagement/wedding announcements which can be customized to include photographs of yourselves.  Typically you would not use these announcements as engagement party invitations as well, but you could to save money if you felt necessary.

Alyssa Milano Channels Grace Kelly on Her Wedding Day — Get the Details!

081709_alyssa_graceActress Alyssa Milano married Hollywood agent David Bugliari Saturday in a nature themed wedding at the groom’s family estate in New Jersey. The traditional ceremony and reception were filled with lovely details we can share with you. Our favorite, being that the bride, in a custom gown by Vera Wang, made her way down the aisle carrying a bouquet of lily of the valley flowers — just like the beautiful Grace Kelly did when she married Prince Ranier of Monaco in 1956. (What a beautiful bouquet idea, right? So simple, yet so stunning!) The ceremony was held outside, and cream colored rose petals were thrown throughout the aisle leading up to a wrought-iron gazebo adorned with willow, roses, and calla lilies. Milano marched to “Imagine” by John Lennon.

“We wanted a wedding that was reflective of who we are as a couple” Milano told People.

Celebrity planner Colin Cowie was in charge of making their dream wedding come true. We love what he did for their reception: Wooden signs led guests to the cocktail area where they sat on hay bales and rattan furniture. (How fun!) Guests dined family-style on farmhouse tables under a tent. And, did we mentioned that Bradley Cooper, a close friend of the groom, was among the celebrity guests in attendance? This is one celebrity wedding we sure wish we’d have attended — don’t you? Sounds like the pair really pulled off a special day that was fun for all involved. Are you thinking of going the rustic route for your “I dos”? What details do you have planned?

photo: Thomas D. McAvoy/Time & Life Pictures/Getty Images

source: celebrityweddingbuzz.com

Wedding Hairstyle Ideas – Half-Up, Half-Down ‘Dos

It’s beauty week at The Knot! To kick it off, check out this gorgeous bride (Sloan in Colorado) and her equally gorgeous ‘do. I can’t get over how effortless and romantic it looks!

>See more than 200 wedding hairstyle pictures.

Photos: Autumn Burke Photography (http://www.autumnburke.com/)

Wedding Reception – Organizing your Wedding Reception Seating Plan

By Georgina Clatworthy

Your wedding reception will be one of the biggest parties you will ever organize and one of the trickiest tasks you will need to complete will be organizing the seating plan.  You may be thinking ‘why do I need a seating plan?’ well, without one, your guests will simply all file into the reception room and mill around wondering where to sit and who with.

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A seating plan will give you greater control over who sits were and with whom so as to avoid any potential conflicts between people who do not get on and also with the aim of creating a happy wedding atmosphere by sitting people together who you are sure do or will get on.  Giving your guests some guidance on where to sit will also speed things up and you will get everyone seated and ready eat in no time at all.

Seating plans are particularly important for a large formal wedding and even if you are not having a sit down meal, you may still have tables set out so a seating plan is still a useful tool for a buffet style reception.  If your wedding is small and intimate then you may find that a seating plan is not necessary and in that case it can be wise to intimate to your guests that it is a ’sit anywhere’ event.

Traditionally, the reception venue will be laid out with a long table at one end of the room, known as the top table, with several smaller square or round tables laid out to one side of the top table.  The aim with the arrangement of the smaller tables is for your guests to be able to see the bride and groom from wherever they are sitting.  Now of course, some of your guests will have their backs to you but make sure there is sufficient space between the tables so they can turn their chairs to you when the speeches and toasts commence.

The tables nearest to the top table are traditionally reserved for the families of the bride and groom and all other guests are then fitted on the remaining tables.  The top table will consist of you and your husband in the center, your mother and father on either side, the groom’s father and mother to one end and the best man and chief bridesmaid to the other end.  There are many variations of the top table, particularly to accommodate parents who are divorced and remarried.  The one constant is that you should both sit in the center and you can organize everyone else in a way that works best for you.

When working out who will sit where it is a good idea to write the names of each guest on pieces of card, followed by a larger card with the table numbers on.  You can then arrange each guest around a table in a configuration which works well for you.  There are some considerations though:

  • Try to sit people of the same age together
  • Avoid placing singles on tables of couples, try to put at least two single people together on a table but avoid any matchmaking!
  • Keep couples and those with children together
  • Try to sit people together whom you think will get on together well

You aim is to try to achieve lively tables where everyone can engage with each other in a friendly and cheerful manner.  Once you have worked out where everyone will sit you can go ahead and have a seating plan board made to display at the entrance to the reception room.