Real Wedding: Brooke & Raf

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Brooke and Raf wanted a wedding that had a down-home feel and was full of thoughtful, handmade details, and that’s just the day they created. Ken Kienow sent over these beautiful photos (wait until you see the sunset shots at the end), and I’m so happy to share them with you today.


Brooke, her mother and her sister have been interested in card making for several years, and even host Card Clubs with friends and co-workers in their respective home towns, and they even get together for an annual holiday card making weekend over Veteran’s Day every year… so it made perfect sense that they would make Brooke and Raf’s wedding stationery.


Brooke’s bouquet was made by April at April Flowers in San Luis Obispo.


Brooke wore Pronovias‘ Oceano dress, and her shoes were from the BP collection at Nordstrom. The bridesmaids wore dresses from Anthropologie (Brooke says she’s still bitter that she didn’t buy one for herself).


The guys all wore ties from Geoffrey Beene.


Brooke and Raf found their wedding venue, Flying Caballos, while searching on VRBO. It’s a renovated farm property that really had the feel they wanted for the day, and they were able to come in and start setting things up two days in advance!


Brooke’s veil, purchased from Etsy vendor Bella Bridal Veils, was blowing everywhere during the ceremony. Brooke says one of her favorite parts of the day was “my un-tamable veil during the ceremony and the way it magically eased our tension with genuine laughter.”


Aside from Brooke’s bouquet, all of the flowers were purchased at Skyline Flowers, a local farm, and arranged by the bride’s best friend, Nena, in bottles collected by family and friends. Brooke says the idea for the burlap table runner came straight from Snippet & Ink!


Brooke was able to get in touch with another bride whose wedding was to take place at Flying Caballos the following weekend. They were able to share the mismatched plates that Brooke’s family thrifted and the vintage silverware that the other bride’s mother found on eBay. What a great way to be both economical and eco-friendly!


Brooke has a habit of buying postcards whenever she travels and then never sending them, so instead of a guest book, she pre-addressed and stamped postcards from all over the world, and asked guests to take one and write notes on them, and then mail them to the couple. Brooke says, “It’s been so fun to read them as they start rolling in!”


Brooke and Raf enlisted friends to help with desserts. Six friends each baked two dozen cupcakes, choosing their own recipes, and even holding taste tests with their own families!


For Brooke’s birthday last year, Raf took her to a cold-process soap making class, so one of the favors they made for their guests were hand made bars of soap wrapped in burlap, jute, and scraps of the same fabric used in the invitations.


Says Brooke, “My favorite time spent with Raf is slow dancing in the kitchen while we’re cooking, so we compiled a little mix with lots of our favorite kitchen dancing songs, and others that have memories from the past six years attached to them. I bought the blank CD holders from Stumptown Printers, and my mom came up with a stamp design for the cover. We had the whole family in assembly mode putting them together a few days before the wedding.”

Thank you so much to Brooke and Raf for sharing this beautiful day with us – I just loved learning about all of these sweet and personal details about your wedding. Congratulations to you both! And of course, thank you to Ken Kienow for sending over these lovely photos – aren’t those sunset shots just to die for?!

I & Heart & BeeGee Bags

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Happy Friday Guys….are you ready for some “pretty eye candy”….well, check out the gorgeous selection of BeeGee Bags….it’s always a pleasure to have the lovely Brooke Galardi stop by the cafe and share her gorgeous designs with us.  How cute are these bags and how sweet it would be to give them to your bridesmaids as gifts and of course purchase a couple for yourself….let’s check out Brooke’s beautiful designs…Enjoy!

Don’t you just love them all….yes, of course, one lucky bride’s cafe reader will have a chance to win one of Brooke’s lovely designs…all you have to do is visit the BeeGee Bags beautiful site…check out the AMAZING collection….and leave a comment at the cafe letting me know your “must have” bag….have fun guys…I’ll announce the winner on Tuesday morning!

Rustic Table Decor

Source:  greenweddingshoes.blogspot.com

I love this idea for table numbers written on an old window. Really fits in with a rustic theme.

table numbers on a window

Personalized jam favors for the guests.

wedding favors jam

All designs by Chewing the Cud. Photographs by Anna Kuperberg.

Real Wedding: Adrienne & Jake

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Get ready – this wedding is full of so many wonderful details, and I had the hardest time narrowing down which images to post, so I just made it a big post with lots of gorgeous photos. By the talented Joel Flory, of course! And it’s in one of the most incredibly beautiful places, just across the Golden Gate Bridge from San Francisco. But I don’t need to tell you about it – see for yourself!


The bride wore a strapless dress by San Francisco-based designer, Amy Kuschel, and accessorized with comfortable white flip-flops from Tracey Asai Designs. Chestnut & Vine did all of the gorgeous flowers.


Adrienne and Jake had their first look at the gorgeous Cavallo Point in Sausalito.


In true San Francisco style, fog rolled in from the bay, making for some beautiful photos.


The wedding took place at the Marin Headlands Center for the Arts. The bride’s mother spent tons of time making flowers from a variety of patterned papers which decorate the benches at the ceremony.


Guests found envelopes of vintage handkerchiefs waiting for them at the ceremony – Adrienne lined the envelopes with images from vintage wedding greeting cards. The programs were embellished with buttons from her mother’s collection.


As Adrienne and her dad were about to walk down the aisle, there was a long pause in the music. The bride says, “I couldn’t deal with everyone staring it me, so I said Hi everyone! and everyone laughed.”


Multi-colored tissue paper pom-poms decorated the altar space.


Carrying the fonts and flower motif over from their invitations, Adrienne and Jake made the programs, menus, and escort cards. Adrienne found an old set of cabinet doors, mounted them with fabric and ribbon, and clothespinned the escort cards to the ribbon – what a clever display!


Instead of a traditional guest book, the couple had a “Filofax” – guests were asked to write notes on cards made from a variety of colorful paper, and then to file them alphabetically.


The family-style meal was catered by Katie Powers. Everything was organic and local, from the heirloom tomato and summer melon salad to the penne with corn and caramelized red onions.


An entire table was devoted to a cupcake buffet, all thoughtfully presented on vintage cake stands that Adrienne collected on eBay. The cupcakes were from the couple’s favorite bakery, La Farine.


The guests could take home little kraft paper bags of the couple’s favorite candies, customized with a rubber stamp from Berkeley Stamp & Engraving and an orange tag, and arranged in a vintage 7up crate.


Another favor that Adrienne and Jake had for their guests were CDs of some of their favorite songs. The kraft paper covers were decorated with vintage food labels the bride found on eBay.


Outside the venue, a bench was made more welcoming with family quilts and plants potted in galvanized buckets – guests were encouraged to sit, relax, and take in the view. I think this photo is probably a good example of some advice that Adrienne has for other brides: “Try to savor the moments and be in the moment as much as you can. It goes by so fast!”

Congratulations Adrienne and Jake! Your wedding was full of so many thoughtful details, and I’m not sure you could have picked a better venue. And thank you so much to Joel Flory for sharing these gorgeous photos. Joel is so talented – be sure to check out his blog for even more incredible eye candy from Adrienne and Jake’s wedding.

DIY Project – Acorn Garland Template

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My last post included the recipe for cinnamon pistachio meringues from our Faux Bois post. Here is the acorn template from that autumn-inspired story for a fun, diy project for the fall. Simply print the template out, cut out the acorn garland, and hang! Enjoy!

Cozy fall table covers

Source: brideslittlewhitebook.blogspot.com

This time of year is all about cozy, warm blankets. How about giving them new life as table covers for a fall fete?

{image 1 + 2 via Country Living; image 3 via katiedid photographed by Victoria Pearson; image 4 via Martha Stewart}

Real Wedding: Alex & Leon

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Duston Todd sent over these beautiful wedding photos, and I just love the vintage twist to this whole event…


Both Alex and Leon graduated from the University of Utah, so they liked the idea of getting married somewhere on the campus. The June ceremony took place at the Fort Douglas Post Chapel, situated on the university’s campus.


Alex wore one of her favorite pieces of jewelry: a cameo choker necklace that originally belonged to her mother, and was given to her years ago – and she was wearing it the night she and Leon got engaged!


The reception took place at the Utah Museum of Fine Arts – one of the couple’s favorite places to visit in Salt Lake City, and a place they wanted to share with family and friends. The cake was made by a decades-old, family-run bakery, Mrs. Backer’s Pastry Shop (801-532-2022).


A candy buffet included lollipops and honey sticks from a local farmers market – honey has a long history of wedding symbolism, and Alex and Leon wanted to incorporate it into their day.

Thank you so much to Duston Todd for sharing these beautiful photos with us – you can see lots more over on Duston’s blog. And of course, congratulations to Alex and Leon!

Photography Series: Jordana Hazel

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Last but most certainly not least in the series – Jordana of Hazelnut Photography! Jordana and I started exchanging emails while we were both planning our weddings, before she was the amazing wedding photographer that she is today. We bonded over a love for damask (which you will see in a few of her pictures below) and its been so fun to watch her turn into such an incredible photographer! Jordana and Chris had such a glamorous wedding, captured by Rob Holley. And even though she worked hard on all the lovely details you see in this post, her advice for all of you so very true:

I’m so excited to be part of this series! I literally did a happy dance in my office when I got the email from Darci. I’ve always found it so interesting to read personal posts and see the everyday images from my favorite photographers. A little glimpse into their lives. I’m so excited to see the other photographers and giggly excited to be one of them!

I think my advice might be a bit counterintuitive to what you’ve always heard. Because I’d always heard it and it totally freaked me out. “Don’t let it pass by too quickly.” You’ve heard that, right? From brides or aunts or friends. “Take it all in.” I wanted to do that. “Savor every single moment.” I wanted to let the day roll by slowly, taking it all in, making every moment count. That’s what I wanted.

But here’s what happened, I got so freaked out that it was going to go by so quickly and that I wouldn’t be able to take it all in that I gave myself a bit of a panic attack. I tried so hard to slow it all down that I don’t think I felt the day as much as I wanted to. As much as I could have.

So, my advice, let the day happen. Relax. Have a cocktail. Let all the details go. Stop worrying. Trust the vendors that you’ve hired to take care of you. Know that there will be parts of the day that you’ll miss, but you’ll be smack dab in the center of the most important moments. Let the most amazing day of your life unfold as it should.

And when it’s all over, you’ll have amazing images, video and memories to help relive the day for the rest of your lives! Our photographer, Rob Holley, and videographer, Joe Rosenberger with Today’s The Day Weddings, captured the day beautifully. We gave them plenty of time to try new things, to be creative and to truly capture us. They were there for things we missed and documented the things we experienced. We couldn’t have been happier!

So very well said, Jordana! Thank you so much for sharing your advice and your wedding with us.




Inspiration from the Emmy’s

Source: http://greenweddingshoes.blogspot.com/2009/09/inspiration-from-emmys.html

Yesterday I was watching the Emmy Red Carpet Show – the best part in my opinion! I love seeing what everyone is wearing, their hair, makeup, jewelry – love it. And it’s a great place to get idea for your wedding day :) My favorite dress of the evening was Mila Kunis. She wore a tea-length dress by Monique Lhuillier. Someone described it as ” vintage ballerina-chic.” Love it. And the shoes! So perfect and very different from everyone else. Some of my other favorites are below.

emmy dresses 2009

Love the way these dresses flow. Leighton Meester looked like a Greek deity in her layered Bottega Veneta gown. I love Lindsay Price’s shade of plum and Kate Walsh’s gorgeous gray J.Mendel Grecian-inspired gown. The detail in the draping with the sweetheart bustline — so romantic!

emmy fashion 2009

Some of my favorite hair and make-up looks. Love Jennifer Love Hewitt’s hair – hippie chic at it’s best!

emmy beauty inspiration 2009
{all photos from fabsugar}

Who were your favorites? Did you find any inspiration from the red carpet?

Details: Emily + Nathan, Part II

Source: http://www.swsmag.net/blog/2009/9/21/details-emily-nathan-part-ii.html

Yes, yes, the bride + the groom (and the photography, and the flowers, and the venue!) are drop-dead gorgeous!  I guess it’s not too surprising, then, that Emily + Nathan’s reception was equally breathtaking.  We love the simple hydrangea centerpieces and our lovely Art Director has already decided the couple’s four-tier cake is the cake (yes, THE cake) she would have at her own wedding.   A girl can dream, right?  Thank you again to Leigh Miller for sharing this California gem!

Describe your wedding flowers: I wanted to hold a classic bouquet of white roses. I also wanted the flowers to have a very airy, casual feel to them, so I thought my bridesmaids should carry baby’s breath, which tied in beautifully with the aisle flowers.
Describe your wedding cake: This cake really turned out just perfectly! It was very elegant, but simple. I found the inspiration for this cake from another wedding I had seen but my baker put her own flair on it. The cake topper featured two doves in honor of my husband’s Armenian heritage. Releasing two doves at a wedding signifies peace and happiness in the marriage, and the two doves made a beautiful cake topper!
What was the biggest challenge you had to overcome while planning your wedding? Having a tight budget was somewhat challenging, but I would have to say that everything went incredibly smoothly, thankfully!
Were there any wedding traditions or new ideas you included in the wedding? I wanted our wedding to feel very comfortable and real, rather than too rehearsed or forced. I had the girls wear the same color, but they were free to choose their own dresses and accessories. I think this made them feel very comfortable and it helped set the tone for the entire day!
What was your most memorable moment about your wedding day? I really enjoyed when Nathan and I went with our photographer to take our couple-shots. It was so nice for us to have time to get away from the crowd and excitement to really focus on what our wedding day was really about. The next most memorable moment was right before my father walked me down the aisle.  I was so nervous so he said a brief prayer. I will always remember that very special moment.
What’s next for you as a couple?  What are you looking forward to in the future?
I am really looking forward to become a unit and having time before we start a family to bond and travel and have spur-of-the-moment getaways! But I am also excited to start a family in a few years.

Congratulations, Emily + Nathan!  Enjoy traveling together as husband and wife!

Details: Camilla + Tanner, Part I

Source: http://www.swsmag.net/blog/2009/9/22/details-camilla-tanner-part-i.html

Whenever our lovely editor-in-chief chimes in about a wedding, we know it’s something special.  So when Lara gushed that she “loved the cuteness” of Cami + Tanner’s colorful Las Vegas wedding from Oakstream Photography, I just had to take a look myself.  We love that the bride choose four wedding colors rather than just one, picked cute, frilly pink and yellow BCBG frocks and carried one of the sunniest bouquet of flowers I’ve ever seen.  How can one help but smile?  Luckily we have a second image board to enjoy together!

How did the two of you meet? Tell us your story. Tanner and I lived across the street from each other last year. He became good friends with my roommates while I was dating another guy. I thought Tanner was adorable from the first day I met him. After sharing many meals and enjoying our favorite T.V. shows together (not to mention all the accounting homework Tanner helped me with!), we became good friends.  We started hanging out more and more until Tanner asked me to go home with him to California for Thanksgiving. I was shocked but thrilled at the same time.  Our trip to visit his family in California is what first made our relationship official!
Describe the proposal:
He had me fooled. He gave me the typical run-around men give when trying to fool girls (“the ring wouldn’t be finished in time” and he had to “figure out all the finances”).  For Valentine’s day, Tanner made plans for us to double date with his roommate where we ate a nice home-cooked meal together.  After dinner, we headed up to his friend’s house in Alpine, Utah where we were going to watch a movie and hang out.  Tanner and I arrived first and he said had a Valentine’s gift he wanted to give me before our friends arrived. He made me a video slideshow of all our pictures of us dating set to the songs that we liked.  At the end of the video, the screen read: “Tanner and Camilla together forever June 20, 2009.”  (I should have known right then that he was planning on proposing!)  He got down on one knee and asked me to marry him!  I was shocked and SO excited!  Right then, his roommates came out of the closets where they had been hiding the whole time video-taping the entire proposal!  
What was the design inspiration for your wedding?
Anyone who knows me knows I’m a very happy and bubbly person. I love bright colors and am not afraid to wear them or decorate with them.  Not surprisingly, I couldn’t choose just one color for my wedding, so I chose four.  I always wanted a laid-back outdoor summer wedding, and that’s what I got!
Tell us about finding your wedding dress:
Oh boy, this is a story of its own!  The short version is that I went to Danielle’s Bridal Boutique in Utah with my mother and two aunts. I literally loved every dress in the store and tried on about thirty before narrowing it down to eight favorites. It was so hard to pick just one dress! I almost called Tanner to have him help me decide!   In the end, I kept going back to the same dress and just couldn’t resit.

Real Florida Wedding: Lara + Ross

Source: http://www.swsmag.net/blog/2009/9/17/real-florida-wedding-lara-ross.html

I think what I love best about Lara + Ross’ Florida wedding at Alys Beach Green and Central Park is the ultra-fab blend of seaside cool and Southern sophistication, courtesy of Buckner Productions.  The fresh whites of the bride’s classic Mikaella gown and the clean, neutral tones of the groomsmen’s lightweight suits are beachy, fun and effortlessly stylish while the rich burnt orange of the bridesmaids’ silk sheaths from Watters Bridesmaids and lush Nouveau Flowers bouquets add just the right touch of autumn elegance.   Like Lara, we like the uniqueness of the couple’s wedding cake from The Broken Egg and think it’s especially sweet it was made as an exact replica of the Alys Beach tower.  A black-and-white-tiled dance floor and a breezy open-air tent are perfectly chic accents for this upscale beach wedding.

P.S. Football legend Eli Manning was in Lara + Ross’ wedding party!  Can you spot the Southern superstar?

How did the two of you meet? Tell us your story. We met back in the fall of 2004 as architecture students. Ross noticed me immediately because he was irritated that I was always late for class!  I finally broke the ice in 2005 when I asked Ross to a DG formal. In 2006, I moved to Nashville and Ross moved to Jackson, but we ran into each other again the week Ross graduated from architecture school in 2007.  We began dating soon afterwards. Over the next year, I would drive to Santa Rosa Beach or Ross would drive to Jackson so we could see each other as often as possible.  After the distance took its toll, Ross moved back to Jackson and we dated for another ten months before he proposed.
Describe the proposal.
Ross wrote me a letter every day for a week, surprising me in a different location each day with the next letter. On Saturday morning, he told me to pack my clothes for the day and to bring something I could wear outside. Ross took me to Pinelake, our church, and planted some trees with me while he read each letter he had written me. We then wrote a letter to ourselves to help us get through any difficult times together.  Ross proposed under the cross on the hill behind the church!
Tell us about finding your wedding dress: I found the dress at Lowe’s, a great place with a ton of great designers and styles to choose from! I had the best help ever!
Did you write your own vows? If so, what was your favorite phrase, verse or line?
We used the same vows both of Ross’ sisters used in their weddings.
Three adjectives that describe the day are:
Surreal, holy and amazing.
What was your favorite design element of your big day? We got married at Alys Beach but if I had to choose a specific thing, I’d have to say I loved our cake best of all!
Describe your wedding cake:
We chose a cake made in the shape of the Alys Beach tower.
Describe your wedding flowers:
The arrangements were very modern, textured and non-traditional.
Were there any wedding traditions or new ideas you included in the wedding?
We incorporated both traditional and non-traditional ideas into our wedding.  My bridesmaids chose their own dresses in “neutral tones,” but my sister and Ross’ two sisters all wore matching dresses. Ross had his brother-in-law perform the ceremony while his other brother-in-law served as a groomsman. We also had our family and friends sing in the wedding. For our music, we chose guitars and harps. Each member of the wedding party poured sand from a small beaker into one large beaker that Ross and I still have.
What’s next for you as a couple? What are you looking forward to in the future?
We anticipate starting a business in residential architecture.

Congratulations, Lara + Ross!  Good luck on your new business!

Southern Weddings Top 10

Source: http://www.swsmag.net/blog/2009/9/21/southern-weddings-top-10.html

The SW girls are beyond thrilled for our upcoming print edition, due out on newsstands nationwide on November 3!  To share some of our excitement, we’ve compiled a list of the top 10 reasons why Southern Weddings is the most dynamic and valuable magazine for today’s Southern bride.

image above :: Jose Villa

10. National and international following, complete with a passion for all things Southern! Though our roots are here in the South, Southern Weddings Magazine boasts a devoted readership that spans not only across the United States but around the world.  There’s just something about the charm of the South that readers, regardless of their location, just can’t get enough of!

image above :: Paul Johnson

9.  Printed and published by the very best in the industry. To help make this next issue bigger and better than ever, we’ve hired a fabulous new printer based right here in the South (Atlanta, to be specific) that prints some truly fabulous national magazines, including Modern Bride, Elegant Bride, Architectural Digest and Wired.  Also, we’re still proudly distributed by Curtis Circulation, the leader in magazine circulation nationwide and responsible for knockout publications like Elle, Newsweek, Forbes and Maxim.

image above :: A Bryan Photo

8.  Our claim to fame: the daily Southern Weddings Blog. For readers who just can’t get enough Southern Weddings, we offer the ever-popular extension of our print edition with the Southern Weddings Blog.  Updated at least three times daily, this blog features stunning real weddings and inspiration from the top wedding pros around the world.  We love to feature our advertising partners on  this blog, especially in the weeks leading up to our launch.  Keep your eyes peeled for a massive makeover that is sure to have you clicking back even more than you already do!

image above :: Jessica Claire

7. Personal attention. That goes for both our vendors and our readers.  We send many copies of the magazine to our readers directly from the office, and not a single copy leaves without a personal note from one of the editors.  This kind of personal attention inspires loyalty, and the loyalty our brides feel for us is a feeling they extend to our vendors, as well.

image above :: courtesy of Preston Bailey

6. Authority. Through our blog and our first issue, we’ve built a reputation for ourselves as the Southern wedding experts.  Our readers trust our taste, and they trust the vendors we select to advertise with us.

image above :: Fred Egan

5. One-of-a-kind grooms’ section: We’re proud to be one of the only magazines with a designated “Grooms’ Section.”  Even better than our brand new, never-before-seen feature?  Our super-secret, super-fabulous groom fashion experts: you’ll never guess who we’ve got up our sleeve…

image above :: left to right – Marcy Blum, Sylvia Weinstock, Amy Atlas, Jung Lee, Preston Bailey, Mindy Weiss, Tara Guerard, Michelle Rago, Rebecca Grinnals and Kathryn Arce of Engaging Concepts

4.  Exclusive interviews with celebrity planners. Southern Weddings is happy to be in the company and have the support of many of the best in the business, several of whom will be featured in our November issue.  Look for Jung Lee, Sylvia Weinstock, Lisa Vorce, Mindy Rice, Michelle Rago, Tara Guerard and Marcy Blum weighing in on what they love best about Southern weddings, as well as new columns by Randy Fenoli of Kleinfeld Bridal Salon and Simon T. Bailey.

image above :: Meg Baisden

3.  New, never-before-seen content: Unlike our premier Spring/Summer 2009 issue, our newest edition will feature ten real weddings never before seen in the blogosphere.  What does this mean for you? Tons and tons of surprises you will be dying to see!

image above :: courtesy of Mindy Weiss

2.  Sold in (the best) stores nationwide: Southern Weddings will be sold in Target, Walmart, Barnes & Noble, and Borders stores across the country, as well as regional grocery stores and bridal boutiques.  We’re honored to have been picked up by these amazing retailers.  Imagine how much more fun the checkout lines will be once we hit stores!

images above :: left to right – Michael Norwood, Jasmine Star, Melissa Jill, Cameron Ingalls, Agnes Lopez, Becker, Michael Norwood

1.  Two Words: SOLD OUT! Our last issue completely sold out and we still receive regular requests to purchase this hot editorial commodity.  With so many new and exciting features, we can only imagine how fast our next edition will fly off the shelves!

Cover image above :: Jose Villa

Vendors, you can’t afford not to be a part of this next issue!  Email me at katharine {at} iloveswmag {dot} com for a media kit.  And to our beautiful brides from all across the country: thank you from all of us here at SW for being such loyal readers and avid fans!  This blog is for you, about you and all thanks to YOU!

Get. Excited.  We sure are!  (Surely there’s no one’s more excited than Emily, though!)

Real Wedding: Cecilia & Andy

Source: http://snippetandink.blogspot.com/2009/09/real-wedding-cecilia-andy.html

Jonas Peterson is by far one of the most talented photographers out there, so if you don’t know about his work yet, then I think this is the perfect time to introduce you. Though he’s based in Australia, he is happy to travel – today’s couple, Cecilia and Andy, flew him to Sweden for their wedding!


A friend of Cecilia’s who was also engaged, found her dress at Lisa Ho. She suggested that Cecilia try dresses on there, too, and of course Cecilia fell in love with the exact same dress that her friend bought. Realizing that they were the same size, and that they would not have any mutual friends at their weddings, they decided to share the dress! What a great story! Cecilia also wore a long pearl necklace from her mother.


Though Cecilia and Andy currently reside in Australia, they decided to hold their wedding in the bride’s native country of Sweden. Guests traveled from Sydney, Toronto, New York, London, Oslo, and all over Sweden to join them on their wedding day, with 60 guests in all, making for a perfectly intimate celebration.


The ceremony took place at a beautiful 13th-century church in the village where Cecilia is from and where her family lives. They found an officiant to perform the ceremony in English, so that everyone could appreciate it.


Cecilia’s friend made her bouquet of calla lilies. Andy wore a gray suit from Herringbone.


The reception took place at Cecilia’s parents’ summer house not far from the church. Located on a lake, it is a very private location, and a special place to the bride and groom – perfect for their wedding! With Cecilia and Andy planning mostly from Australia, it was a huge help to have her parents in Sweden working on details there.


All of the centerpieces and the wedding survival kits (for those guests who had never attended a Swedish wedding before) were made by the bride, groom and their families, among many other DIY projects.


At Swedish weddings, and at Cecilia and Andy’s, the dinner lasts for hours, with lots of toasts, speeches, and traditions. The couple’s friends made slideshows of photos and movie clips from the Hen and Buck parties (bachelorette and bachelor parties in the U.S.). One of my favorite traditions that Cecilia shared with me is that whenever the bride leaves the room, to powder her nose for example, all of the ladies run to line up and kiss the groom, and vice versa when the groom steps out. Hilarious!


One of the couple’s favorite moments from the day was a big surprise organized by Cecilia’s parents. Between the main meal and dessert, everyone was asked to go outside to the lake for the surprise “kulning.” Kulning is a traditional Scandinavian way of singing that is quite unusual and hauntingly beautiful. Jonas Peterson talks about it a bit, and has an example of it that you can listen to over on his blog.


A DJ kept everyone, including the bride and groom, dancing late into the night – Cecilia is so glad they stayed and partied until the wee hours with all of their guests who traveled so far to celebrate with them.

A big thank you to Cecilia and Andy for sharing all of these details of your Swedish wedding with us – congratulations! And thank you of course to Jonas Peterson for sharing these gorgeous photos. See more of Jonas’ work on his website and blog – you won’t want to miss any of it.

Real Wedding – Mexico City

Source: http://with–this–ring.blogspot.com/2009/09/real-wedding-mexico-city.html


Dana Cordova is a talented graphic designer from Boston, who married her husband Raul in a traditional wedding in Mexico City to honor his culture and heritage. She was kind enough to send along a few pictures of the wedding and her amazing stationery designs, as well give some advice to all of you planning a destination wedding. You’ll find her advice below (and definitely go check out her work, her use of color is inspiring) – thanks, Dana! {Photos by Rodrigo Cassou}


My advice to those planning a destination wedding on a budget (i.e. no planner) is to choose a really gorgeous place that won’t need a lot of decoration so that you have less to do from a far. I couldn’t keep calling the restaurant to discuss linens and cocktail napkins, and I couldn’t bring much with me and shipping was expensive. So the small gift bags and favors we did have we got there at local markets the week prior.

I think more than anything one should pour their energy into helping your guests to really enjoy the trip and it make just as much about the journey as it is about your wedding. I spent nearly a year and half compiling my virtual guide (the free blog platform is great for this) that included descriptions of neighborhoods, attractions, restaurants, clubs, bars and practical info about getting around and safety. The greatest joy for me was hearing that people used my guide (also in printed form in everyone’s gift bag) and that they did a lot of site seeing all around the city—every afternoon we’d sit in the hotel bar or around the pool and people would say how they did this and saw that, and thanks for the tip on the restaurant and you were right that little neighborhood was great. And they all said they would have had no idea where to start without it in such a big and crazy city! I think people really appreciated our efforts and enjoyed themselves so much more—and hopefully felt like the journey was worth it!

sankofa sampler: an african wedding

Source: http://etsywedding.blogspot.com/2009/09/sankofa-sampler-african-wedding.html

STRENGTH and HUMILITY CUP - West African Series 5
{ strength and humility cup — west african series #5 by dovecotedesign }

the african symbol dwennimmen above is based on the curve of rams horns, and like so many symbols represents a graceful balance of two opposing ideas. strength and humility — those and a sense of humor, and you’ve got your wedding planning mantra. this artist’s “love never loses its way home” cup is my favorite of the series, was sold in 2008 — perhaps she will make it again for you?

one of the many reasons blogging has been so sporadic is that in addition to travel and my normal jobs (magazine, jewelry, blog) i have been working on a big freelance project this summer, incredibly challenging and rewarding (and stretching into september!), with the new york african burial ground project reports.

the earliest colonial african american burial ground was discovered in 1991 during excavations for a building in lower manhattan; from the late 1600s to 1790, upwards of 15,000 people were buried there, and then the area was filled in and covered over during the next two centuries as NYC grew up around it. i simply can’t do the project justice here, but encourage anyone interested in an amazing and moving piece of our american story to visit the project site, a lovely quick online overview, or the beautiful memorial at 290 broadway.

one symbol from the history report resonates particularly — at first glance it resembles a heart with spirals, and can also be a bird looking toward its tail: the lovely sankofa, in both its forms. “go back and get it”: go back to the past to retrieve what is good, so you can learn and take it to build a future.

Freedom Wooden Map Puzzle of Africa
Bracelet Hobo in Red and Gold by Dsenyo
Senegalese Ring - silver Adinkra Symbols  Box
Carved Wooden Long Bowl Bibakao and Carnelian Necklace
African Drum Song ADINKRA  SYMBOLS-  SANKOFA- RETURN BACK AND TAKE WHAT IS YOURS
Sankofa Authentic hand woven kente stole / sash form Ghana BN
{each photo links to its shop}

California Details: Marie + Kevin

RSS Source: http://www.swsmag.net/blog

There’s something about a bold purple color palette and peacock feather motif that’s at once lavishly elegant and sophisticatedly contemporary, and Marie + Kevin’s dramatic wedding (captured by Travis Hoehne and planned by Angel Swanson of Events of Love Splendor) really was all that and more.  Judging by these fab photos, chic California hotspot, Seven Degrees, was an idea venue for the couple’s outdoor ceremony and modish reception.  While I was initially struck by the bride’s richly-colored and be-feathered bouquet from Irvine Village Flowers (I’ve never seen a bridal bouquet quite like that before!), it was the classic lines and couture detailing of Marie’s Vera Wang gown that really had me wowed.  And wow, what a dress it was!  For those brides looking for a unique alternative to the usual single-flower boutonnière, check out the groomsmen’s dramatic feather + flower combo.  (Unfortunately, it may be a little harder snatching up the bridesmaids’ romantic lavender frocks, as the bride chose custom dresses made by her own mother!)  Cupcakes from Sabor y Cultura Café rather than a traditional wedding cake gave this ultra-cool, luxe affair just the right amount of personal flavor and flair.  I love Southern Weddings!  Do you?  Check out our latest contest and show us your love!

How did the two of you meet? Tell us your story. We met in summer school while studying in the same astronomy class and lab group.  I would always try to race the other people in my lab group to see who could finish first, but Kevin was really the smartest in the class.  He sat back and let everyone else do the work and then copied their answers later!   

Describe the proposal: Kevin swept me away to a romantic destination on our sixth anniversary where he surprised me with a proposal!

What was the design inspiration for your wedding? Modern, clean and elegant, very much inspired by Philippe Starck’s interior designs.

Favorite design element of your big day: There are so many favorites!  We loved  the gigantic paper flower pomanders that my mother made, the peacock feather motif on the escort cards and the actual peacock feather in the pewter vases.  The turquoise napkins which were a surprise gift from our coordinator!

Tell us about finding your wedding dress: One day at work, I read about the Saks’ sample sale on Daily Candy.  I decided to stop by to see what was there, not planning on purchasing anything.  I expected a mob but found the store to be somewhat empty with just a few brides leisurely browsing.  I picked up a few samples to try on for fun and ended up finding the perfect dress!  The girl sharing my dressing room even told me how perfect the dress was!  That day, I walked out of the store with my wedding dress.

The most unexpected event on our wedding day was: An earthquake!  4.7!

Did you write your own vows? Yes, but we had the officiant read them to us so we didn’t have to memorize them.

What advice would you give to someone planning their wedding? On the day of your wedding, make sure you remember to relax!  Let other people deal with whatever issues arise.  If possible, hire a day-of coordinator.  And enjoy every single moment of being engaged and planning your wedding!  It is such a special time.

Congratulations on your marriage, Marie + Kevin!

Let Them Eat Cake

Source: http://thoughtfulday.blogspot.com/2009/09/let-them-eat-cake.html




I can’t get enough of these cakestands from Let Them Eat Cake. They are just pure gorgeousness! I will definitely add these as inspiration tear sheets for my baby girl’s first birthday party!

{photos from let them eat cake}

Unique and Eco-Friendly Centerpiece Ideas

Source: http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/EarthFriendlyWeddings/~3/2_fdHNaavNI/unique-and-eco-friendly-centerpiece.html

Pears on a pedestal and musings in milk glass, here are a few eco-friendly centerpiece ideas to inspire the brain. Vintage milk glass and edible centerpieces make for a great way to reduce waste and incorporate family heirlooms in your decor. My favorite is the first picture – the grain of the wood, the patterned fabric, and the rich color of red create such a lovely effect.

by Jane Flanagan

by Kimberly Shaw Graphics

by Kimberly Shaw Graphics

by Lepiaf.Geo

DIY – English Trifle Table

Source: http://www.thebridescafe.com/?postID=500&diy-english-trifle-table

As someone with English heritage I thought it would be fun to have a table at a wedding, shower or party that was a nod to that heritage. I personally grew up with trifle made by my wonderful Mom, my Aunts, Grandma and Nana, but I’ve have never seen them outside my family functions in America. Trifles are so visually pleasing that they can be the main focus of a dessert table or served as the main dessert in lieu of cake. They also taste really, really good!

The glass containers with the glass pedestal on the bottom are called Trifle Bowls, Bed Bath and Beyond, K-Mart, Crate and Barrel carry these unique bowls. I also recommend scouring flea markets, and garage sales for Trifle Bowls as well.

You can ask your caterer if they can make trifle for your wedding (if you’re in the Bay Area, I’d be happy to make them for you!), if you are adventurous, here are a few recipe options:

Each trifle serves 12-15.

Chocolate Kahlúa Trifle

Prepare Chocolate Cake from a mix or from scratch, Bake in a 13×9 pan
1 cup Kahlúa (you may want to leave this out if serving to kids) it’ll still taste great  – sans Kahlúa which is how my Mom made it growing up.
Prepare 2 boxes of Instant Chocolate pudding mix or 2 servings of this recipe
1 larger container of Cool Whip/Whipped Cream (similar quantity)
5-6 Heath Chocolate Bars/Skor Bars

Assembly:

Once cake is cooled, poke holes in the cake with a fork Drizzle cake while still in pan with Kahlúa as much as you would like, approx 1 cup.

Cut chocolate cake into 2 inch squares. Line the bottom of the Trifle Bowl with chocolate cake snugly leaving minimal gaps, fill with small pieces as needed to fill big gaps.

Scoop 1/3- 1/2 of the pudding onto the top the cake smoothing to the edges. (you make have leftover pudding when you are done with this recipe)

Whether using Cool Whip or Whipped Cream smooth across, on top the layer of the pudding

Chop up 3 Heath or Skor Bars and sprinkle generously over Whipped Cream/Cool Whip.

Place another layer of cake squares on top of the Heath Bars/Skor Bars

Repeat the same steps with Chocolate Pudding and another layer of Whipped Cream/Cool Whip.

Finish with generously sprinkling the remaining 2-3 Heath/Skor Bars

Lemon Trifle

Prepare a Pound Cake(in two 8×4 pound cake pans) from a mix or recipe
Prepare two boxes Instant Lemon Pudding mixes or recipe made twice
Lemon Curd (only if using Lemon Pudding Mix) (Trader Joes, Whole Foods and likely many grocery stores carry lemon curd)
Large container Cool Whip/ Whip Cream

When preparing the pudding mix, add 3/4 jar of Lemon Curd. This gives it a really authentic lemon taste. Use an electric mixer to blend the pudding mix, milk and lemon curd together.

Assembly:

Cut the pound cake into roughly 2×2 squares and line the bottom of the trifle bowl, It doesn’t have to be exact. Pack cake in snugly so no gaps between pieces of cake.
Scoop 1/3 of the pudding on top of the cake layer, smoothing to the edges.
Scoop 1/3 of Cool Whip or Whipped Cream on top of the pudding layer and smooth across.

Repeat two more times so three layers of each (cake, pudding, whipped cream)

Garnish with lemon rinds in any way you wish!

Strawberry Vanilla Trifle

Prepare one yellow cake from a mix or any yellow cake recipe , bake in 13×9 pan
Prepare two batches of either Instant Vanilla Pudding mix or recipe
Large container of Cool Whip or Whipped cream
1 pint of Strawberries
Large jar of Strawberry Jam

Assembly:

Cut yellow cake into 2 inch squares Line the bottom of the Trifle Bowl with cake leaving minimal gaps, fill with small pieces as needed to fill big gaps.

Scoop 1/3- 1/2 of the pudding onto the top the cake smoothing to the edges. (you make have leftover pudding when you are done with this recipe)

Slice Strawberries lenghtwise and place on top of the pudding all around the edge of the bowl so you have a circle of strawberries.

Fill the center of the circle of strawberries with a approx 1/4 inch of strawberry jam, spreading carefully.

Top the jam and strawberries layer with Cool Whip/Whipped Cream.

Repeat the layering again with cake, pudding, strawberries and jam, Cool Whip/Whipped Cream.

Garnish with Strawberries.

Note: You will save yourself alot of time using cake mixes, pudding mixes and Cool Whip.. I am sure Martha Stewart is frowning on me for saying this!  So please do whatever you prefer.

Signage – Each sign showing each flavor of trifle was attached to a wooden spear and then placed in a corresponding ingredient of the trifle. 1/2 a lemon face down, strawberry and vanilla beans and Cadbury Chocolate squares broken up and stacked….Enjoy!!

Make sure you stop by Hillary’s new site, Off White Wedding….more gorgeous inspiration for you to see!

Real Wedding: Nikki & Ron

Source: http://www.thebridescafe.com/?postID=498&real-wedding-nikki-ron

Hello beautiful cafe readers….I hope you all had a wonderful holiday weekend…..as always, we have lots of gorgeous inspiration for you at the cafe this week….let’s kick things off with a visit from The Bride’s Cafe Crème de la Crème member, Erica of Studio 188 Photography.  Erica sent over the images from Nikki & Ron’s beautiful wedding….let’s check out all the magic from their day captured by Erica….Enjoy!!

Erica shares a little info with us……”Nikki & Ron celebrated their marriage with a ceremony at Irvine Park and a reception to follow within walking distance at the Science Museum in St. Paul. I love how intimate Irvine Park is, such a beautiful setting for a wedding. The bride wore a mix of lace and satin and an adorable pair of blue, ballet flats. The bridemaids wore a variety of silhouettes from dress designer Siri, purchased at  Flutter Boutique. Bridesmaids were treated to personalized Lisa Lill Studio Bags. I loved the delicate touch the bride added with her late Grandmother’s ring added to her necklace. The gents went modern-daper with tuxes by Calvin Klein and footwear by Converse.

Keeping with the “Green” theme, the bride purchased flowers from a local co-op and assembled the bouquets herself. She also created all the boutineers, which included miniature bird nests with eggs, feathers and ribbon. Everything paper related was created by Marlo, sister-in-law to the bride. I loved the personal touches she added to the invites and table placement cards, actually sewing on little birds paper cut-outs! Tables were adorned with a centerpiece of green apples, a small assembled tree with a photograph of the couple at a location which matched guests’ table placement cards. All the paper is environmentally friendly and provided by French Paper in Michigan.”

The Science Museum was a great setting for the couple who live in St. Paul. Food was provided by local caterer Lancer Catering. Amazing cupcakes were provided by Buttercream. Guests danced to music provided by the amazing DJ Jake Rudh, voted Best DJ by City Pages seven years running!

How cute are the shoes!!!

These bouts are too adroable!

Thanks SO much Erica for stopping by today….you truly captured Nikki & Ron’s beautiful wedding story and it was totally a pleasure to have you stop by today….guys, make sure you check out Erica’s site to see more images from Nikki & Ron’s special day…..and to Nikki & Ron, we wish you a lifetime of happiness and joy!

Check back later guys for more gorgeous inspiration…..xoxo!

Jewelry giveaway

Source: http://classicbride.blogspot.com/2009/09/jewelry-giveaway.html


PreOwnedWeddingDresses.com is giving away a $2500 fine jewelry rental from Adorn Brides. The winner will be able to rent from an amazing array of fine jewelry for her wedding day by choosing a fancy diamond necklace with almost 8 carats of diamonds with matching diamond earrings and diamond necklaces and earrings for her bridesmaids to wear … and that’s just one of the options! The contest closes on October 31 – and the winner will be selected on November 2nd. Check out all the details here.

Love Shoot: Jessica & Matt

Source: http://snippetandink.blogspot.com/2009/09/love-shoot-jessica-matt.html

Jessica was sweet enough to send over these beautiful engagement photos of her and Matt, and I just couldn’t resist. They wanted their engagement shoot to reflect where they are in their lives and relationship – getting ready to begin their life and build a home together. So they borrowed furniture and accessories from family and friends, and set up this great shoot at Carbon Canyon Regional Park in Orange County.

Congratulations Matt and Jessica! And a big thank you to Van Tran and Brad Webber from Single Frame Cinema for sharing these beautiful photos!

Real Wedding: Tiffany & Brad

Source: http://snippetandink.blogspot.com/2009/09/real-wedding-tiffany-brad.html

Tiffany and Brad got the best of both worlds with their wedding – an intimate and private ceremony in Prato, Italy, with just two witnesses, a translator, and the officiant, and then a big reception a month later with friends and family in Portland. Once you see these great DIY details, it will probably come as no surprise that the bride is a stylist, and I think photographer Lauren Brooks did such an amazing job of capturing not only the details, but also how totally happy the couple is…


The couple’s friend helped them design the logo that was printed on all of the invitations, save-the-dates, door signs, and throw pillows. The invitations were printed by Minuteman Press. Friends who screen print as a hobby printed over 100 save-the-date towels which read “Please help us celebrate throwing in the towel on the single life.”


Tiffany’s friend, Wendi Martin of WeMa Designs, made her gorgeous wedding dress as a gift. Brad wore a bespoke suit by Chris Kerr.


The reception took place at the Olympic Mills Commerce Center, creating their own event space in the refurbished loading dock area of the building.


Rentals from Peter Corvallis Productions. Instead of a sit down dinner, Tiffany and Brad wanted to create a party vibe, so there was mostly finger food and no seating chart – just places for people to sit and eat and relax.


Friends and family were collecting green bottles for months before the wedding! Two of Tiffany’s friends arranged all of the flowers that morning, and another friend who is an event planner did tons of work behind-the-scenes to pull everything together (check out her blog, Asleep to Dream).


Brad made three types of mustaches that people had a blast with in the photobooth.


Tim Acott and Reggie Houston played live music for part of the reception. A DJ took over later in the evening.


Tiffany and Brad’s friends stepped up to the plate again with dessert, baking 150 chocolate and carrot cupcakes, which were embellished with little toothpick toppers embossed with the couple’s wedding logo. A small cake from the Bakery Bar included a custom cake topper made by a sculptor friend. The menu was Italian-inspired, as a nod to the couples Italian wedding ceremony. Guests also enjoyed a signature drink, the “Schiffany” (a play on the bride’s first name and the couple’s last name): a cocktail made with cucumber, mint, and fresh-squeezed lemon juice, which could be served virgin, or with Skyy vodka.

There are so many more great shots from this wedding, so be sure to stop by Lauren Brooks’ blog to check those out. Thank you so much to Lauren for sharing these great photos, and congratulations and best wishes to Tiffany and Brad! Oh, and on another note, if you’re missing inspiration boards, check out my color board over on The Bride’s Cafe today…

Real Wedding: Sandy & Brian

Source: http://www.thebridescafe.com/?postID=479&real-wedding-sandy-brian

Hello my beautiful readers……meet Sandy & Brian….they are the cutest couple and they had such a fun and laid back kind of wedding…I love it….Brian and all the guys wore shorts…now that’s prettly laid back…too cool!  Their wedding story is told by the awesome husband and wife team of Robert and Jaclyn of Rad Photographer…not only are they AMAZING at capturing your special day….they are just super nice people.

I love the images they sent over to share with us today….the styling and the bright sunny colors make me smile…you can clearly tell Sandy & Brian and their friends had a blast….Enjoy!

Thanks SO much Robert and Jaclyn for stopping by the cafe today….and I’m happy to share with you that Rad Photographer is a member of The Bride’s Cafe Crème de la Crème Vendor Directory.  Please make sure you check out Rad Photographer’s site to see more images from Sandy & Brian’s wedding story and lots more beautiful “eye candy”.

The one thing that I loved most about Sandy & Brian’s wedding is the “laid back” feel of it….let me know what’s your favorite detail about their special day……thanks guys….AND….check back later …we have more beautiful inspiration to share with you today…xoxo

A Catered Affair by Sterling Affair

Source: http://theblistmeetup.blogspot.com/2009/04/catered-affair-by-sterling-affair.html





Just like any wedding reception you need to feed your guests, right? Whether you are having a brunch, luncheon or dinner reception, or cocktails and cake you will need to hire a caterer to provide the food and wait staff for your event.

For the B-List event this past weekend Sterling Affair provided a delicious luncheon for the bloggers and vendors. In addition to wraps, salads and sandwiches we also enjoyed some delicious fruit and chocolate tarts for dessert.

If you are getting married in the tri-state area, or looking for a caterer for a private or corporate event, visit sterlingaffair.com to learn more about their services and menu options.

[photos by Jenny Ebert Photography]

Real Wedding – Jenny & Yoongu

Source: http://with–this–ring.blogspot.com/2009/08/real-wedding-jenny-yoongu.html


I think Jenny and Yoongu might take the title for most DIY Projects in one wedding! She created ALL the flowers, escort cards, some details on her dress, the invitations, even the cake topper. Impressive! Jenny & Yoongu had a traditional ceremony in Korea, then also celebrated with a wedding in the states.

Because the couple travels so much, their invitations were made to look like passports and the escort cards resembled plane tickets. Instead of a traditional guest book, guests were encouraged to leave messages on vintage postcards. Lucky bamboo was given as a favor, complete with miniature compasses to include the travel theme. And their adorable airplane cake topper was up for grabs to the guest who could guess how many miles the couple has traveled together (answer: 75,000)! Big thanks to Caroline Tran for sharing her beautiful photography – head over to her blog to see more pictures from Jenny & Yoongu and stay tuned for an amazing bridal session from Caroline tomorrow!








two trick pony: behind-the-scenes tour + screenprinted wedding invites

Source: http://etsywedding.blogspot.com/2009/08/two-trick-pony-behind-scenes-tour.html

two trick pony
{ photo by two trick pony }
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while you’re waiting for me to get it together, my friend rachael forwarded this lovely post on how her custom-screenprinted invites were made. in person these invites were unbelievably beautiful — done by two trick pony, whose blog combines mouth-watering recipes with gorgeous printed things. yes please!

here are a few etsy items of theirs…
For Your Shower, Single Card Montrose, Ochre and Grey, Box Set of 6
Best Wishes, Single Card Hello Sunshine, Single Card
Winter Apples print Whirlaway Thank You Note, Single Card
more at twotrickpony.etsy.com

thanks for the introduction, rachael!